March 01, 2024, Chiang Mai

My recent participation in the World Without Orphans (WWO) conference was akin to an enlightening church service—initially attended with reluctance but leaving with a profound sense of gratitude. This transformation in perception was catalyzed by the encouragement of my friend and mentor, Myron Youngman, who not only urged me to attend but also generously covered the conference fees and my journey from Bangkok to Chiang Mai. Reflecting on this experience, I recognize the invaluable opportunity it presented.

The mission of WWO, focusing on fostering environments where orphans can thrive within family units rather than in small homes or large institutional settings, deeply resonates with my beliefs. Having been introduced to the concepts of adoption and foster care through a couple from Saddleback Church years ago, I have since been a staunch advocate for these models of care. The philosophy that every child deserves the stability and warmth of a family environment aligns with my core values.

However, the practical application of these ideals at my school presents a complex challenge. Currently, we provide for approximately 80 orphans, constituting about a third of our student body, in a small home setting. This arrangement, while not ideal, is the best we can offer under our circumstances. During the conference, I engaged with a WWO activist from Germany, who shared his endeavors to raise awareness among German churches about the support of homes in three particular Asian countries. His insights highlighted a critical concern: the potential risks involved in abruptly transitioning away from small home and institutional care without a well-prepared alternative.

This conversation underscored the importance of a cautious, informed approach to change. The immediate cessation of support for children’s homes could have unintended negative consequences on the very children we strive to protect. It emphasizes the need for WWO to prioritize raising awareness and building the infrastructure for foster care and adoption, rather than outright campaigning against funding for children’s homes in these regions.

Implementing foster care and promoting adoption in societies with deeply ingrained caste systems and cultural norms is fraught with challenges. The insights shared by the German activist serve as a potent reminder of the complex landscape we navigate in our mission to improve orphan care. As we advocate for change, it is crucial to proceed with sensitivity and care, ensuring our efforts are truly in the best interests of the children.

Reflecting on the WWO conference, I am reminded of the significance of open-minded engagement and compassionate action. Like a church service that leaves one with a renewed sense of purpose, this experience has not only reinforced my commitment to the cause but also highlighted the complexities of transitioning to family-based care. It underscores the necessity for thoughtful, informed strategies that prioritize the well-being of orphans, aiming for a future where every child is embraced by the love and security of a family.